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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 14:34:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5801&quot;&gt;Devang Upadhyaya&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much for reading and commenting! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5801">Devang Upadhyaya</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for reading and commenting! </p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 14:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5744&quot;&gt;Sumedha&lt;/a&gt;.

The person I&#039;m dating definitely has flaws, and while they could be a deal breaker for someone else, they aren&#039;t to me. You will definitely tick someone else&#039;s boxes in all the right ways. Thanks for reading and commenting :) xx ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5744">Sumedha</a>.</p>
<p>The person I'm dating definitely has flaws, and while they could be a deal breaker for someone else, they aren't to me. You will definitely tick someone else's boxes in all the right ways. Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂 xx </p>
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		By: Devang Upadhyaya		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Devang Upadhyaya]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2022 03:38:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey, best wishes <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/16.0.1/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />
Also, like the way your have written this blog <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/16.0.1/72x72/1f601.png" alt="😁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, best wishes 🙂<br />
Also, like the way your have written this blog 😁</p>
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		By: Sumedha		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2022 10:21:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I sometimes make a quick list in my head with the checkboxes I want my person to tick off but considering the world, the society I live in, etc., I keep reminding myself that finding someone I vibe with and am comfortable with is much more than ticking off boxes. It is interesting how you found someone who is almost perfect for you. Of course, there will be flaws but no one is perfect. I keep thinking if I would tick someone else&#039;s boxes and that makes me see things more realistically.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sometimes make a quick list in my head with the checkboxes I want my person to tick off but considering the world, the society I live in, etc., I keep reminding myself that finding someone I vibe with and am comfortable with is much more than ticking off boxes. It is interesting how you found someone who is almost perfect for you. Of course, there will be flaws but no one is perfect. I keep thinking if I would tick someone else's boxes and that makes me see things more realistically.</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 20:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5650&quot;&gt;Mariann Yip&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for reading and commenting :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5650">Mariann Yip</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂</p>
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		By: Mariann Yip		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mariann Yip]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 19:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is so interesting. Love this post completely.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so interesting. Love this post completely.</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Feb 2022 17:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5539&quot;&gt;blameitonart&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much! Yeah, i feel super lucky to have found someone so special, i honestly never thought it would happen to me! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5539">blameitonart</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you so much! Yeah, i feel super lucky to have found someone so special, i honestly never thought it would happen to me! </p>
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		By: blameitonart		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Feb 2022 09:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m Loving this post, I&#039;m glad you met someone your clicking with, that vibe is so important.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm Loving this post, I'm glad you met someone your clicking with, that vibe is so important.</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2022 15:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5525&quot;&gt;Corinne&lt;/a&gt;.

Maybe that&#039;s what it is? Maybe that we don&#039;t throw out our list entirely, but our list changes as we continue to meet people! Thanks so much for reading and commenting :) xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/when-that-checklist-no-longer-matters/#comment-5525">Corinne</a>.</p>
<p>Maybe that's what it is? Maybe that we don't throw out our list entirely, but our list changes as we continue to meet people! Thanks so much for reading and commenting 🙂 xx</p>
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		By: Corinne		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Corinne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2022 23:36:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think we all have that ideal list, but once we find someone to who we are drawn to it can change completely!

Corinne x]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we all have that ideal list, but once we find someone to who we are drawn to it can change completely!</p>
<p>Corinne x</p>
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