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		By: alwayscleia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 17:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2116&quot;&gt;Melina Elisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes lets! 2019 will be great <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/16.0.1/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2116">Melina Elisa</a>.</p>
<p>Yes lets! 2019 will be great 🙂</p>
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		By: Marie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 17:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2111&quot;&gt;Melina Elisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Aww you&#039;re way too sweet, thank you so, so much Melina, this means the world &#060;3 &#060;3 &#060;3
And it&#039;s my pleasure, really, you&#039;re incredible and I&#039;ll always be there to support you and your work! &#060;3 ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2111">Melina Elisa</a>.</p>
<p>Aww you're way too sweet, thank you so, so much Melina, this means the world &lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3<br />
And it&#039;s my pleasure, really, you&#039;re incredible and I&#039;ll always be there to support you and your work! &lt;3 </p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 13:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2114&quot;&gt;alwayscleia&lt;/a&gt;.

Omg thank you so much for your kind words! Maybe 2019 will be the year of brand sponsorships :) Let&#039;s work towards that goal together xxx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2114">alwayscleia</a>.</p>
<p>Omg thank you so much for your kind words! Maybe 2019 will be the year of brand sponsorships 🙂 Let's work towards that goal together xxx</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 13:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2113&quot;&gt;hudapervez&lt;/a&gt;.

I think you&#039;re so right! I have to gain some more confidence, and believe that I AM good enough. Thank you so much for reading and commenting love :) xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2113">hudapervez</a>.</p>
<p>I think you're so right! I have to gain some more confidence, and believe that I AM good enough. Thank you so much for reading and commenting love 🙂 xx</p>
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		By: alwayscleia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 07:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I totally get it, it&#039;s a lot easier to sell someone who isn&#039;t ourselves because you have an outside perspective. There&#039;s no real way for us to know how other people are perceiving us so I think it&#039;s hard to look at our own work with that outside look.
One of my goals for this year was to start pitching to brands but so far I&#039;ve been too timid, I need to work on this too.
Brands would be lucky to work with you Melina, your posts are always so thoughtful, genuine and as you said, well written! I love reading your blog and I&#039;m sure brands will see how much work you put into it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally get it, it's a lot easier to sell someone who isn't ourselves because you have an outside perspective. There's no real way for us to know how other people are perceiving us so I think it's hard to look at our own work with that outside look.<br />
One of my goals for this year was to start pitching to brands but so far I've been too timid, I need to work on this too.<br />
Brands would be lucky to work with you Melina, your posts are always so thoughtful, genuine and as you said, well written! I love reading your blog and I'm sure brands will see how much work you put into it.</p>
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		By: hudapervez		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 06:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great question! I think it all comes down to lack of belief in ourselves. Deep down, we don’t believe we are good enough for that job or for that opportunity and that makes it hard for us to sell ourself but can also lead us to miss so many amazing opportunities! xx
Beaulife.org]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great question! I think it all comes down to lack of belief in ourselves. Deep down, we don’t believe we are good enough for that job or for that opportunity and that makes it hard for us to sell ourself but can also lead us to miss so many amazing opportunities! xx<br />
Beaulife.org</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2018 18:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2108&quot;&gt;Marie&lt;/a&gt;.

Omg, thank you so so so much. You always right the most amazing comments that literally make me so happy! I&#039;m sorry to hear you can relate to this! I don&#039;t know you in your &quot;real life&quot;, but I know from your blog that you are an amazing person with so many amazing qualities. Your blog is definitely one of my favorites, and you should definitely take pride in the blog that you have created! You should be so proud of yourself, and not be afraid to sell yourself, because you are a wonderful person with a great blog :) xxx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2108">Marie</a>.</p>
<p>Omg, thank you so so so much. You always right the most amazing comments that literally make me so happy! I'm sorry to hear you can relate to this! I don't know you in your "real life", but I know from your blog that you are an amazing person with so many amazing qualities. Your blog is definitely one of my favorites, and you should definitely take pride in the blog that you have created! You should be so proud of yourself, and not be afraid to sell yourself, because you are a wonderful person with a great blog 🙂 xxx</p>
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		By: Marie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2018 17:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh I can feel this deep in my soul and bones, Melina, ahah. I always have the hardest time selling myself just as well, whether it&#039;s in a blogging, or a real life opportunity. I am always afraid to come off as bragging, and I always feel like I am not enough  compared to other bloggers out there. It is a silly feeling though, because we all are there, doing this and we all are unique in our own way. I personally find you always so authentic in your blog posts and, like you&#039;ve written it here, you&#039;re right: I feel like I&#039;m casually having a conversation with a close friend when I read your posts and your thoughts on these topics and that&#039;s definitely something you should and can perfectly &quot;sell&quot;. Keep on being yourself, Melina, and trust yourself, I know how hard this can be sometimes, but you have and will keep on getting incredible opportunities, I am certain of it, because you work hard and you&#039;re genuine and you deserve them all &#060;3 Keep on going, you&#039;re amazing &#060;3]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I can feel this deep in my soul and bones, Melina, ahah. I always have the hardest time selling myself just as well, whether it's in a blogging, or a real life opportunity. I am always afraid to come off as bragging, and I always feel like I am not enough  compared to other bloggers out there. It is a silly feeling though, because we all are there, doing this and we all are unique in our own way. I personally find you always so authentic in your blog posts and, like you've written it here, you're right: I feel like I'm casually having a conversation with a close friend when I read your posts and your thoughts on these topics and that's definitely something you should and can perfectly "sell". Keep on being yourself, Melina, and trust yourself, I know how hard this can be sometimes, but you have and will keep on getting incredible opportunities, I am certain of it, because you work hard and you're genuine and you deserve them all &lt;3 Keep on going, you&#039;re amazing &lt;3</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2018 14:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-sell-ourselves/#comment-2105&quot;&gt;K.M. Sutton&lt;/a&gt;.

omg thank you so much! This is one of the nicest comments I&#039;ve ever received, and it has definitely made my day! Thank you thank you thank you! xxx]]></description>
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<p>omg thank you so much! This is one of the nicest comments I've ever received, and it has definitely made my day! Thank you thank you thank you! xxx</p>
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		By: K.M. Sutton		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2018 14:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love your posts! And YOU are enough! As a content creator it is something I think most if not all of us struggle with. I know I definitely do. Perhaps it is insecurities, but I also find the people (and this might sound conceited) that have the most doubts, are the ones who SHOULD be selling themselves because they are the most authentic and knowledgable. You are amazing beauty and you deserve all the success! Keep doing you! &#060;3]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your posts! And YOU are enough! As a content creator it is something I think most if not all of us struggle with. I know I definitely do. Perhaps it is insecurities, but I also find the people (and this might sound conceited) that have the most doubts, are the ones who SHOULD be selling themselves because they are the most authentic and knowledgable. You are amazing beauty and you deserve all the success! Keep doing you! &lt;3</p>
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