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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2715</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2019 14:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2707&quot;&gt;Extracts of Alex&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m so glad to hear hat you enjoyed this post! I recently got out of a long relationship, and I&#039;ve been trying to be positive about the whole thing, and remind myself of the good of this failed relationship. Thank you so so much for reading and commenting xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2707">Extracts of Alex</a>.</p>
<p>I'm so glad to hear hat you enjoyed this post! I recently got out of a long relationship, and I've been trying to be positive about the whole thing, and remind myself of the good of this failed relationship. Thank you so so much for reading and commenting xx</p>
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		By: Extracts of Alex		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2707</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2019 16:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve listened to her song many times but never really thought about the lyrics! I&#039;ve learnt so much from previous relationships and feel it&#039;s made me who I am today. I just wish I could tell myself this or seen this post when I was going through the hard times in the past.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I've listened to her song many times but never really thought about the lyrics! I've learnt so much from previous relationships and feel it's made me who I am today. I just wish I could tell myself this or seen this post when I was going through the hard times in the past.</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2363</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2018 16:22:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2343&quot;&gt;alexraphael&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you! I try to write from experience in hopes that it helps someone else. Thanks for reading and commenting Alex :) xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2343">alexraphael</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you! I try to write from experience in hopes that it helps someone else. Thanks for reading and commenting Alex 🙂 xx</p>
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		By: alexraphael		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2018 13:20:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lot of honest wisdom in this post]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lot of honest wisdom in this post</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2338</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2018 15:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2336&quot;&gt;georginawangui&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for reading Georgina :) x]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2336">georginawangui</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for reading Georgina 🙂 x</p>
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		By: georginawangui		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2336</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2018 13:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s true.. some forevers are shorter than others. 

Thank you for that wonderful post.

Georgina &#124; https://georginawangui.com/]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It's true.. some forevers are shorter than others. </p>
<p>Thank you for that wonderful post.</p>
<p>Georgina | <a href="https://georginawangui.com/" rel="nofollow ugc">https://georginawangui.com/</a></p>
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		By: The Style of Laura Jane		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2332</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Style of Laura Jane]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Nov 2018 13:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2327&quot;&gt;Melina Elisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Sometimes I think though, how much more growth and change is still to occur, and how rare it is for someone who was there in the early twenties, to be their 10 years later. I try to not get too hung up on past memories now, and just focus on people in my life presently. xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2327">Melina Elisa</a>.</p>
<p>Sometimes I think though, how much more growth and change is still to occur, and how rare it is for someone who was there in the early twenties, to be their 10 years later. I try to not get too hung up on past memories now, and just focus on people in my life presently. xx</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2018 15:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2323&quot;&gt;The Style of Laura Jane&lt;/a&gt;.

I completely relate to this comment! It&#039;s so true. There are so many people that you envision they being with you through all these milestones, and then they&#039;re not in your life anymore, and you&#039;re in turmoil. Then you realize...wait, I&#039;m actually fine without them? 3 years ago my friendship of over 10 years ended, and while it was super upsetting to lose a friend you had so many memories with, and that you felt like they&#039;ve just been with you through so many phases and evolutions of yourself, that it really sucks. Now, looking back on it, there was so much going on that it was definitely for the best.
It&#039;s true, I feel like sometimes I choose people according to how I feel about myself. If I feel insecure about myself, then I choose people that I think I deserve (in terms of relationships). Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment, you really got me to thinking about a lot! xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2323">The Style of Laura Jane</a>.</p>
<p>I completely relate to this comment! It's so true. There are so many people that you envision they being with you through all these milestones, and then they're not in your life anymore, and you're in turmoil. Then you realize...wait, I'm actually fine without them? 3 years ago my friendship of over 10 years ended, and while it was super upsetting to lose a friend you had so many memories with, and that you felt like they've just been with you through so many phases and evolutions of yourself, that it really sucks. Now, looking back on it, there was so much going on that it was definitely for the best.<br />
It's true, I feel like sometimes I choose people according to how I feel about myself. If I feel insecure about myself, then I choose people that I think I deserve (in terms of relationships). Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment, you really got me to thinking about a lot! xx</p>
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		By: The Style of Laura Jane		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2323</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Style of Laura Jane]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2018 16:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[100% believe and agree with this. I&#039;ve had people before who I couldn&#039;t imagine life without. And then suddenly life goes on and you realise you&#039;re fine. Last year I &#039;broke-up&#039; with my oldest friend of 13 years and it taught me so many lessons. 
I often find we attract people similar to how we feel. When you feel insecure, you connect with other insecure people etc. And then when you grow and viewpoint changes, sometimes the friendships or relationships look completely different. LOVE this post!!! xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>100% believe and agree with this. I've had people before who I couldn't imagine life without. And then suddenly life goes on and you realise you're fine. Last year I 'broke-up' with my oldest friend of 13 years and it taught me so many lessons.<br />
I often find we attract people similar to how we feel. When you feel insecure, you connect with other insecure people etc. And then when you grow and viewpoint changes, sometimes the friendships or relationships look completely different. LOVE this post!!! xx</p>
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		By: Melina Elisa		</title>
		<link>https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2315</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melina Elisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2018 14:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2308&quot;&gt;keyslayy&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much for the kind words Kels! Thanks for reading and commenting xxx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.melinaelisa.com/the-good-of-failed-relationships/#comment-2308">keyslayy</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for the kind words Kels! Thanks for reading and commenting xxx</p>
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