That's how I feel too! My boyfriend is turning 31 this week, and he does not seem to be looking forward to getting older than the 30 he is at the moment, aha.

Thank you so much! xx

Miriam | A Hygge Escape

Thank you so much! Getting older is so weird, but I have a feeling that this year will be a good one for me 🙂 I don't even want to think about turning 30 yet aha

Lauren x

Thank you so much, you're right! You can hit your goals at any age, and it's still an achievement. It's just hard, when you're so hard on yourself. xx

Thank yo so much! You know what? I never thought about it that way. I guess some people stay content with the way they are, so it might not be that they have their shit figured out, but more that they're just comfortable with their place in life and don't continue to grow. I'm sorry to hear your anxiety has gotten worse, and I hope it gets better with time, especially if you're putting yourself out of your comfort zone. Thanks so much for reading and commenting Laura, hope you're doing well 🙂 x

I can really relate to this post. I am a perfectionist and quite a big dreamer, and I do really come down hard on myself when I haven't reached certain goals. There is a lot of pressure to do certain things by a certain age.

But what I have learnt, is when you say you're still trying to figure your shit out, many people don't... ever. They reach certain milestones but don't actually take the time to focus on their mental health or figure out self-love. I have noticed my anxiety has increased since covid, so I'm trying to say yes to more things to force myself out of my comfort zone.

I am so happy you have found J! xx